The combination of chemistry and compatibility is the holy grail of dating. It’s not uncommon to find that combo difficult to find. What can help is to be fully engaged in the date, not just sitting back observing from the third-person. Chemistry between two people takes both people.
We’ve heard time and time again that honesty is the best policy. But what is the practical implications of having that type of policy? Does that mean you “spill your guts” no matter the question, the context or the outcome? The answer is NO!
Perfectionism is something people usual associate with job performance, academics or the like but many people also seek perfection in a relationship. How do you know if your expectations for love are too high?
There is nothing so powerful as accepting responsibility. We all blow it. We all have those moments when we aren’t at our best in a relationship, whether it’s a brand new, first date kind of relationship or a long term take-each-other-for-granted kind of relationship. There are few mistakes that cannot be transformed into something positive.