If your ex was so great, you’d still be seeing him. If the relationship was healthy and happy, you’d be enjoying your time together. So, it seems you are really missing having a boyfriend. You have a choice. You can either dwell on what’s missing or you can look to the future. You can either focus on all you’ve had or you can imagine all that you can have. Actually, realize you have gained so much by this “loss” and that is a good thing! Look over the list below and apply whichever ones fit your particular situation.