Losing interest in someone once they show interest in you, at first glance seems to be a puzzling scenario.
However, upon a closer look there are a few common reasons this might happen.
When you are in a relationship, things may not go as smoothly as you hope. Arguments happen, people say mean and cruel things and you feel hurt and even betrayed. Is the relationship worth mending? Is the foundation strong enough so that you feel you can grow from the experience?
If you find yourself in a situation where your partner is jealous of your past—know that you are not alone. In fact, this is a common issue for many couples and taking steps to address this retrospective jealousy is key to moving forward in your relationship in a proactive, positive and healthy way.
Discussing past relationships may trigger your partner and, if this is the case, you may find your partner feeling threatened about your past experiences and how they compare.
Take the following steps to find grounding, validate your boundaries and establish healthy foundations for moving forward: