Most of us have had the experience of having our heart broken by someone else. We found someone we cared about or even loved, then they left us all alone. This situation is quite common for both men and women. After this happens, people may think, “I won’t open myself up to be hurt again.” If this is what he is thinking, his subconscious mind is working to protect him.
Day: September 8, 2020
When you’re trying to determine if he’s committed to you or not, it is most important that both of you understand what commitment means to the other person. There are many couples out there who do not choose to legally marry because neither of them wants to. There are many couples who make a conscious decision to wait years before making the decision to become engaged.
The first question to ask yourself is whether or not you are a placeholder. What does this mean? It means you are keeping the spot warm while he waits for the next best thing. Yes, that sounds harsh, but when you are in it, it’s hard to recognize at first glance. If you have seen this as a problem that needs fixing, you are in the right place.