Day: October 28, 2020

What To Do When He Doesn’t Call When He Says He Will

What To Do When He Doesn’t Call When He Says He Will – 6 Experts Reveal Their Best Tips + Insights

We have all been there. Waiting for the phone call. Hoping he will call to say he’s been thinking of you, or to follow up on a conversation or ask you out.

But the phone doesn’t ring, or least it doesn’t ring when you expect it to.

So you wait and wait, putting other things on hold (time with friends, work, self-care etc.) in hopes you’ll connect and have a date for the weekend. You become more and more anxious and make up things in your head about the situation.

The problem with this is you are waiting, expecting, hoping and assuming.

How Soon is Too Soon To Be Engaged

How Soon is Too Soon To Be Engaged? – 8 Must-Know Insightful Tips on How Long You Should Be Together Before Getting Engaged

It feels great to be in a relationship when you’re with someone who’s compatible with you and everything seems to be going well. It makes you want to move forward faster.

Often, in the initial phases of a relationship it’s quite “normal” for things to go smooth.

However, if you could just put the brakes on a little bit and wait things out, other things might show up as well.

How long is a little bit you ask? That all depends.

How To Slow Things Down in a Relationship

How To Slow Things Down in a Relationship – 6 Experts Reveal Their Best Tips + Insights

You worry about pushing him away, but at the same time you know that avoiding your feelings is not the answer either.

If you’re in a situation like this, I recommend the following:

Take a step back and evaluate what’s best for you.

Take steps to take back your control. I’m not talking about a way that is bossy or controlling, but in a way that is clear, respectful and empowering.

How To Deal With an Emotionally Unavailable Man

How To Deal With an Emotionally Unavailable Man – 6 Experts Show Exactly How To Find Out

An emotionally available partner will provide safety both emotionally and physically for the other person to show who they really are, and likewise, allow themselves to be vulnerable too by the sharing of deeper emotions.

Being involved with someone who is emotionally unavailable can be confusing. The clients I have worked with will say that they feel helpless, alone, and unhappy and wonder if they are doing something (or not doing something for that matter) to cause their partner to not open up and connect with them. They blame themselves for the frequent arguments, mistrust and lack of intimacy.

If you are in a relationship with a partner who is emotional unavailable there are ways to empower yourself and feel more secure.

Scroll to Top